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I am a mom and registered nurse with a history of disordered eating. By writing about my experiences and struggles, I hope to encourage a more nuanced, compassionate vision of health.
©2021 CaringHealth Journal & Blog: Personal writing about disordered eating, HAES, intuitive eating, mental health, and motherhood challenges
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Bodies Change
Bodies change—it’s what they do. Hormones wax and wane throughout a lifetime demanding our bodies develop and evolve. It’s natural and...
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School Health Initiative
Hello Principal, We are so grateful for all the work you do to make the school a wonderful place for our children to learn and grow. I’m...
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A Different Opinion
I spend a lot of time writing about bodies. Reading about bodies. Thinking about bodies. Maybe too much time. It started after my second...
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My Pack
The large metal door rumbles open. My humans are finally home. A yip squeaks out. The man enters clutching a piece of fabric. He presents...
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Beware the Lure of Restrictive Diets
Restrictive diets are very trendy right now. There are many popular eating plans which encourage cutting out certain foods or even entire...
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Weight-Neutral Healthcare
I grew up believing I was overweight. I do not know if I first decided this in my pediatrician’s office when they explained to me that I...
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Thoughts on Health and Healthcare
This blog has been a little neglected lately. Recently, my writing time has been devoted to two projects. First, is a novella that adapts...
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Guest Post: 3 Common Phrases to Avoid Saying to Your Kids (and What To Say Instead)
I am so excited and grateful that "Her View From Home" published this piece. I have been working on it for over a year and am so glad...
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Potty Training During the Pandemic
I recently began the daunting process of potty training my youngest kiddo. This transition reminded me of my attempt to potty train my...
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Guest Post: Little Things Can Be Self Care Too
Check out my newest guest post. I am so grateful that "Her View From Home" shared this piece!! https://herviewfromhome.com/self-care-litt...
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Health Toolkit Part Five: The Last One
Health is different for every person. I view being “healthy” as the ability to engage in and enjoy my life. While being “unhealthy” is...
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Health Toolkit Part Four: Healthcare and Medical Professionals
Being healthy is a nuanced process that requires a variety of practices and not a single solution. The healthcare system and medical...
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Sometimes Our Heroes Make Mistakes
I’m taking a short break from my Health Toolkit series to share something else that has been on my mind lately. Brené Brown has been of...
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Health Toolkit Part Three: Lifestyle factors
What comes to mind when you think of a healthy lifestyle? Do you imagine a restrictive diet and a rigid exercise routine? Eating less,...
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Health Toolkit Part Two: Health and Weight are Not the Same Thing
The narrow image of “health” that mainstream culture promotes did not work for me. Instead, I have discovered a health which allows for...
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Health Toolkit Part One: My Personal Toolkit
What is health? Is health a problem to be solved? Is health a standard to be achieved? Is there a correct way to be healthy? Or is health...
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Being a Mom is Hard- Revisited
While searching an old computer for important work documents, I found some of my writing from early motherhood. Each piece was short,...
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Obligation, Passion and Purpose
Lately, I have been thinking a lot about obligation, passion and purpose. As this global pandemic continues to rage, I have decided to...
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Too Extreme?
Sometimes when I talk about diet culture, intuitive eating and health at every size (HAES), I feel like I’m too radical or too extreme....
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Three Things I Avoid Saying to My Kids
My journey as a mom has been a challenge. My first kid taught me to let go of my expectations and to stop trying to get everything just...
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